Midnight Movie

So i just watched a movie, i dont know whether or not i should say with my family because they all ditched me one by one as the movie went on. Leaving me by myself watching “He’s just not that into you”. So the reason i am here lying on the coach watching a movie by myself is because i cant just start a movie and NOT finish it or leave it for tommorrow, i cant just leave the rest for tommorrow and watch it cause i wanna be able to take in everything as it happens. Originally, i refused to watch this movie because i assumed it was a chick flick, but, it was better and funnier than i expected it to be. BTDUBZ, if you havent watched it i guess im gonna spoil it for you niggas.

So the dude in the movie  i think his name was alex, was talking about if the guy doesnt keep intouch/call its because he doesnt want to, which i think is honestly the truth. He also talked about a “spark“ that girls thrive for, which is basically something that was invented by guys so that they could treat woman badly. According to him, the reason why the girls fall for the spark is because they love the drama that comes with waiting for ”it” to happen, in some cases its the first call after meeting the guy. And honestly, its 100% legit cause  it boosts girls soo much and they at that point where the go and tell all their girls about the dude and shiit and start talkin about going out with them lol.  What kinda sucks is the fact that it sucks when they are “just not that into you” cause girls get all boosted and feelin nice and then it doesnt happen (the guy doesnt call) and THEN they are at the point where the cry about it to their girls and then go slu it out lol.

The next thing that they talked about in the movie was about  ”the rule” and “the exception“ thang. AND ITS SO TRUE, all those like lovey-dovey, perfect relationship, everything works out in the end shit happens to 1/1000 people and theres always that girl who has a friend of a friend that tells them oh its gonna work out cause it worked out with my friend of a friend and then girls get their hopes up and shit, 90% of the time they get hurt then girls go on their emo rants saying “fuck guys, i dont need them ” or even more specific ”fuck (insert name) hes so waste, im not gonna talk to him anymore” and the next time they see eachother again, whether it be a day later or a week later, shes gonna start talking to him all over again. But i do have to admit, if it werent for girls acting like this, than serious relationships wouldnt work out (like ben affleck and jennifer aniston in the movie). So these things have their ups and downs.. mostly downs.. that lead to possible ups..  i just find it funny how some girls can be so negative about everything and then when it comes to “the rule“ and “the exception” girls are so optimistic about this guys being “the one“ knowing that its the smallest chance in the world that it is possible.

What i also find funny is how easy it is to misinterpret signs. I’ve had my fair share of misinterpretations but honestly like some people just need to grow some balls (girls included) and just tell the other how they feel.  There’s a 50/50 chance you’ll get the answer that you want and instead of prolonging it, people just need to speak they feel and when i say people i dont just mean guys. Girls have to do it also ! dont just put everything on the guy. Honestly, guys are soo obvious when they like a girl and girls just need to take the hint and stop over analyzing ERRRTHANG. Girls have their intuition and shit, so why dont you use it as logic rather than just confuse yourself and then end up not knowing what you want.

So my friend asked me an interesting question today(April 26, 2009) about the movie and i decided to share it with you. She asked me who i thought which character i was in the movie. I thought this was interesting cause i had just than realized that the movie showed the different types of people and their behavior in a relationship or dating situation. My friend said that she thinks my character is Conor. Conor is the dude that loves off Scarlett Johansson but she’s “just not into him”.  She said i reminded her of  him NOT cause he’s a douche and he’s mad pathetic, but because “hes nice”. Well, i disagree totally cause word he was mad desperate and i know 100% that im not. My answer to the question was Alex because like him in the movie, i have a lot girl friends that i give advice and stuff about guys, telling them which ones to look out for and what not. One reason is because im usually not the type of guy to get into serious relationships cause i like to have fun and keep my options open. But then when i meet the person i wanna be with i would go to great extents to have her and do whatever it took to get her.  Another reason why is because i’ve also been in the same situation as he was not all at once but in two different occasions. One situation is where i become close with a person of the opposite sex and think of them as only a best friend but on the other hand the girl thinks that i have a crush on her and tries to pursue a dating relationship with me when i dont feel the same. The second situation is when at first i think its just a best friend relationship and then when she brings up the idea of us being together or the idea is brought up.. somehow, at first i dont dig the idea but then later on it makes me think about how it would be with them and i start to grow feelings for them. To be more specific, the first situation happens commonly, but the second situation has only happened once. So as you can see, there are much more reasons why my personality is actually Alex rather than Conor. No disrespect, Conor tries hard and cares for his girls (Scarlett) but it seems so pathetic to me and i AINT pathetic.

Now about the movie, that singing/guitar dude that the girl met on myspace, was fuckin jokes ! tried using the same game on different girls and called the same girl twice LOLOL. i was dying, like actually laughing out loud. Oh yeah the other part that made me laugh was the part where the girl finds out that the guy was lying to her the whole time and then breaks the mirror, looks at it for like 10 seconds, walks away and grabs a broom and starts cleaning it up LOL.  So i thought it was a good movie and i enjoyed it .. by myself .. at like 2 in the morning .. whatever it was jokes lol.

 
On a different note, Scarlett Johansson is soooo hot. I have 3 favorite scenes in the whole movie and you will only understand why if you watch it:

1. When shes in the swimming pool
2. When shes wearing just the dress shirt and lingerie in the room
(something about a girl wearing just a dress shirt and lingerie with only like the 2 middle buttons buttoned is soo attractive to me)
3. When shes in the office.. aww yeahhhhhh

Honestly.. who wouldnt ?

 
NUFF SAID.